It’s recommended when meeting new people, and old friends, to ask personal questions. It’s easy, everyone loves talking about themselves. It gives you something to discuss other than the weather. Unless of course you’re learning a new language, then weather discussions are advised.
Questions are good not only because they show you’re an interested and curious listener, but also because it makes the person responding feel interesting. That’s a nice thing to do for someone. It breaks the ice. (No pun intended if your discussion is about global warming en francais.)
I like when people ask me why I like teaching and telling stories.
It gives me the opportunity to tell more stories and watch eyes glaze over.
I don’t like the question “ Who is the greatest inspiration in your life?” That one leaves me speechless and makes my eyes blur.
Too many choices: Public figures, family members, fictional characters, spiritual leaders, philanthropic artists, teachers, babysitters…is this a test?
Will I be judged by my response?
Anyone who knows anything knows you should select someone who is universally important (to show worldliness) or someone familial (to show appreciation), then again one may do the latter to stay in the good books.
Speaking of which, what if my inspiration is Eloise who lives in the Plaza Hotel with her dog, Weenie, rather than Jane Eyre who lives in Moor House with ghosts? Does that mean I’m more precocious than principled ?
As a yoga teacher maybe I should choose Pantanjali, the compiler of the Yoga Sutras, or Saraswati, the goddess of wisdom, art, language and music?
Because I’m a woman should it be a woman?
I know a lot of great female teachers and athletes but my pal John was the most talented ski instructor I ever worked with.
He spent a good deal of his career working with children and training others to do the same. One of his jokes I’ll never forget, still gets a roar of approval with a group of 10 or 50 year olds.
“Three moles were trudging in line through an underground tunnel, making their way to Farmer Smith’s cellar, where all kinds of treats were stored.
The first mole said, ‘I smell sugar’.
The second mole said, ‘I smell honey’.
The third mole said ‘All’s I smell is molasses’.”
He taught me the importance of humor in teaching and in learning.
He expanded my appreciation of making the strange familiar and the familiar strange.
He showed me that sometimes the best teachers are not physically the best in their field.
He exemplified a person who was committed to doing and sharing what he loved.
I can’t think of any better qualities in a ski teacher, a yoga teacher, or any teacher.
I can’t think of any better qualities in a human being that would inspire or influence me more.
Well there you have it. Next question?
Namaste- the ice broke today